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You often hear the line “He’s a good guy and all but…” when people criticise others. Since the word “good” doesn’t mean anything on its own, the phrase adds nothing to what’s being said but what might it say about the speaker? I asked AI: People often mix in the phrase “He’s a good guy […]
Read EssayI realised today, …how important it is to set time aside in parenting to not just look after the financial, physical needs of our family, but also to “be parent” – set time 1:1 time aside to be fully with her in her world, where there’s no knob or self-control that turns down her acting […]
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There are two ways to bite in a conflict: confrontationally the other with your claws out or avoidantly run away and bite yourself in pity but there’s another way. Are you hyperalert or anxious whenever threats arise and you’re looking for a way out? How about a map leading up? I find images speak much […]
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What does the word “confrontation” evoke for you? Do you cower or charge? When you’re in it, does your voice creak, does it roar? What do you feel, do you freeze and collapse, go into a rage, or something else? How you confront matters because it reflects your boundaries with others. No boundaries? People walk […]
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